Licensed Therapist, LMFT

You don't have to carry
all of it alone.

Individual and couples therapy rooted in compassion, evidence, and the belief that healing isn't linear. Serving California virtually and in-person in Santa Monica.

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Santa Monica Office

Warm, private setting on Montana Ave. Virtual sessions also available statewide.

Currently accepting new clients
Individual & Couples Therapy
You might recognize yourself here.
Anxiety that won't quiet down
Relationship patterns that keep repeating
Burnout and emotional exhaustion
Grief or loss, including the unnamed kind
Life transitions that feel overwhelming
Trauma you've carried long enough
Therapy that meets you where you are, not where you think you should be.

Safety First

Before any deep work begins, we build a foundation of trust. You set the pace. I hold the space.

Evidence-Informed

Drawing from CBT, EMDR, somatic experiencing, and attachment theory. Tailored to what actually works for you.

Lasting Change

Not just coping, but real transformation. We work toward understanding the patterns beneath the pain.

What to expect when we begin

1. We slow down

You don't need to tell your whole story at once. We begin where you are, at whatever pace feels safe.

2. We identify patterns

Together we notice what keeps repeating beneath the surface, the habits and responses that aren't serving you.

3. We build a path

You leave with a clearer sense of what support looks like and what our work together could become.

"I spent years thinking something was wrong with me. Nora helped me see that I was responding normally to abnormal circumstances."

Client, 2 years of individual therapy
12 years clinical experience
Warm, grounded practice
in Santa Monica
Accepting new clients

Therapy is not about fixing what's broken. It's about reconnecting with what's whole.

I'm Nora Elam, a licensed marriage and family therapist with 12 years of clinical experience. I specialize in anxiety, relationship patterns, life transitions, and the quiet grief that doesn't always have a name.

My practice is built on one principle: you already have what you need to heal. My job is to help you access it.

LMFT #87421 EMDR Certified Gottman Level 2 Somatic Experiencing
Things people often want to know before reaching out.

Do you take insurance?

I'm an out-of-network provider. I provide superbills you can submit to your insurance for potential reimbursement.

Virtual or in person?

Both. In-person sessions are available at my Santa Monica office. Virtual sessions are available throughout California.

How long are sessions?

Individual sessions are 50 minutes. Couples sessions are 75 minutes. We'll find a cadence that works for you.

What if I'm not sure therapy is right for me?

That's completely normal. The free consultation is exactly for this. No commitment, just a conversation.

Ready to begin?

A 15-minute consultation is free and comes with no pressure. It's simply a chance to see if we're a good fit.

I typically respond within 24 hours. Currently accepting new clients.